{"id":2275,"date":"2024-03-07T13:02:32","date_gmt":"2024-03-07T19:02:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iowappa.com\/?p=2275"},"modified":"2024-03-07T13:02:32","modified_gmt":"2024-03-07T19:02:32","slug":"a-retired-ritual","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iowappa.com\/?p=2275","title":{"rendered":"A Retired Ritual"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Some traditions vanish before you think to tell your children about them. On the other hand, I doubt very much that my children or grandchildren would be interested in hearing about the anachronistic ritual of a chivaree. [Alteration\u00a0of\u00a0the French word charivari<\/a>, with a Latin root meaning \u201cheadache.\u201d]<\/p>\n

I participated in one chivaree, or shivaree as it\u2019s spelled in some backwater regions of the country. I barely remember it. Mom got a few of us kids and passed out pots, pans, kettles, or anything metal along with a metal spoon, and herded us two blocks south to a basement house. We banged on those metal kitchen cookware instruments as loud as we could. I must have been very young because I don\u2019t remember who the newly-wed couple was.<\/p>\n

What I do remember is that the couple who were being serenaded by our racket were just married, and mom called it a chivaree. That is the first and last time I was ever involved in such a ritualistic, yet enthralling, activity.<\/p>\n

A chivaree was a traditional custom in the Midwest, the hills of the Carolinas, and parts of New England in the 19th<\/sup> century, and it continued into the first part of the 20th<\/sup> century. I may have attended the final chivaree in the early 1950s.<\/p>\n

\u201cShivaree is defined as \u2018a loud and purposely frightening community party, forced upon newlyweds a short time after their wedding.\u2019\u201d It often took place around midnight, or at least after dark, and besides the banging of pots and pans, guns were fired into the air and people pounded on the windows. The one I attended was in the evening, probably right after the sun set and there were no guns.<\/p>\n

The couple subjected to the chivaree are expected to invite all the revelers in for alcoholic drinks and candy for the kids. I don\u2019t recall getting any candy, but I can guarantee that the adults with us kids that night partied hardy, while the kids were sent home.<\/p>\n

Depending upon where you lived a chivaree might be called \u201cbellings,\u201d \u201chornings,\u201d or \u201cserenades.\u201d But the tradition is similar in all instances.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t imagine you could successfully chivaree some couple in today\u2019s world. Try that in a suburban atmosphere. We already know that the activity in an urban area would have you in handcuffs before the couple could make it to the door to ask you to keep it down. If everyone in a small town was in on the secret, it might work out, but I wouldn\u2019t count on it.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe merits of a shivaree were numerous. Everyone in the community participated-young and old, male and female. The newlyweds certainly met their neighbors in a friendly if raucous manner and were, in turn, properly initiated into the community. Another important feature of the custom was the collective good cheer and feeling of community everyone shared.\u201d<\/p>\n

The ritual often began a little after the happy couple had turned off the lights on their wedding night, or shortly thereafter.<\/p>\n

Considering all the old-time rituals that have died out through the years, I\u2019m glad that this one disappeared. Or did it.<\/p>\n

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